Transgender and Intersex Health

[CrimSinRoad]

My mother and I are both chronically ill, so I still live with my family. They need my help and I need their's but...
They don't know I'm FTM.
They deal with me dating women but they would not handle this well. 3 years ago my father found out I was using a male name at school and on the internet and he and mom sat me down and "explained" to me that I was a girl. I lied my way out of trouble but it's getting harder and harder to hide what I am. I'm reaching the end of my rope and feel somewhat trapped. I can't leave right now because of the illness and my monetary situation. My girlfriend is the only one that knows.
I know I'm not the only person going through this, but it feels like it. I don't even really know any gay or lesbian people much less other Transgenders.
Anyone have advice on how to cope with this situation?