[Ozman]

Does anyone have ideas on how to improve resilience to anal tearing? I find I tear quite easily when receiving anal sex or even can damage my anus when wiping up after a normal bowel movement. The tears are only ever small but annoying. Thank you!

[Jacki]

Keep in mind that while the vagina is a 2-way street (designed for entry and exit), the anus is a 1-way street, designed for exit only. Before your partner comes inside you, you need to completely empty your bowels. Make sure he's extremely well lubricated. Right when he's ready to penetrate you, flex your bowels again, like you're actually taking a dump; this will flex the anus outward, and allow for easier penetration. If he penetrates you without the anus flexed outward, then he's forcing it inward, in a direction it wasn't designed to go. Good luck!

[hegedus]

i use cream from http://www.analitching.info to heal anal tears and itching